I have found a kink in one of my all-time favorite vacations: going with an infant.
Greg and I were pretty confident that it really wouldn't be that bad. A couple years back a couple of friends brought their infant for nearly the whole week and they seemed to do fine. We were slightly worried because that infant was the only one on the trip and Collin would be one of 4 young kids (the oldest being 4). But we were only going for 2 and 1/2 days, and Collin is a really good baby!

Lets just say, it wasn't the fun, relaxing vacation I remember. We had lots of willing helpers with my family there. My mom even crawled in a cramped bunk with Collin to try and put him down for a nap. There was just too much going on for Collin to get a good nap, and that made the night time sleeping rough. Also, I'm a worrier. As Collin, and the rest of the boat slept, I lay awake thinking "Is he too hot?" "Is he too cold?" "Did he eat enough to sleep through the night?" "Can I get to him before he wakes up everyone else?" I just couldn't relax. We'd planned to stay til Saturday, but had to leave Friday evening because we were just too frustrated.
Honestly, it could have been much worse. I think that we were just so used to being able to control our environment, and on a boat with 17 other people we just had NO control. And that was very stressful for both of us.
I still LOVE the vacation, but I will never do it again with an infant. We'll see if we attempt it next year with an 18-month-old...but something inside me doubts it. Maybe we can talk my parents into a different Smith family vacation...